Couple donates kidneys to strangers

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SAN DIEGO – A local husband and wife became the first couple in the country to each donate a kidney through the National Kidney Registry.

“Saving your kidney for a rainy day is like saving your fire extinguisher while watching your neighbor’s house burn,” Alexis Wesley said.

It’s that type of thinking that lead Alexis Wesley and her husband Charles to a Sharp Memorial Hospital room. Alexis Wesley had surgery Husband and wife donate kidneys to strangersMonday night.

“It is really easy and a really, really simple way to save someone’s life,” Wesley said.

The impact of her decision is anything but simple. Alexis and Charles Wesley made history when they used the National Kidney Registry to save 10 lives.

The non-profit connects patients with compatible donors through exchanges.

The Wesley’s donation set in motion two transplants in California, two in Maryland, as well as one in Ohio, Pennsylvania and New York.

“I don’t really need to meet the person,” Alexis Wesley said. “I just wanted to know if his transplant was successful.”

The couple relies a lot on faith and their family has received a lot of medical help themselves.

Both of their children have a rare joint disorder arthogryposis and the kids had several free surgeries to help them walk.

When Charles Wesley read an article about donating he decided it was the perfect way to return the favor.

“You give up maybe three or four weeks of your life in terms of having to go through recovery but you can extend someone else’s life by 10 or 15 years,” Charles Wesley said. “I really wanted to be the person that was willing to do that.”

Charles Wesley had surgery April 2012 and thanks to a less invasive technique he was back to normal in two months.

“When I started 25 years ago, we would cut people in half to get the kidney out,” Sharp Surgical Director of Transplantation Dr. Barry Browne said. “Now, we take the kidney out through a couple of keyhole incisions and people go home in two days.”


  • esco

    That's a very brave thing to do, kudos to them for their life saving generosity. I'm a chicken when it comes to that stuff, I haven't even filled out my donor card yet.

  • Diana clark

    Altruistic donation has been around for a few years but not very publicized. The great thing is that by donating a kidney to an unknown person results in several people receiving a kidney just from thus one donation. It is an interesting and great concept that hopefully more people will think about doing. Great of you to give the gift of life !

  • Guest

    Recently, a study was completed by the Cleveland Clinic looking at the wellness of living donors. The bottom line is that living donors are at risk of having CKD themselves post nephrectomy. Face it, if any one of us suddenly lost 50 percent of our renal function our doctor would be concerned, very concerned. Yet people are talked out of kidneys everyday, with little concern or faithful discussion of the ramifications. A clear conflict of interest exist. Everyone in the process is a winner, physically and financially, except the donor. The first rule of healthcare is to do no harm. The transplant industrial complex has become morally and ethically bankrupt. It's all about making money. Here is a fact, which is that 4.5 million lives are saved every year in the USA with blood donation, which is a renewable resource. On the other hand, 28,000 kidneys are transplanted every year. Nearly 50 percent are now living donors. The cost between the two are nearly the same. The transplant industry is pushing live donation, because there are not enough cadaver donors. As for saving lives, hemodialysis is saving over 400,000 lives a year. Transplant has become a business. Follow the dollars.

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